Mum’s Eulogy

Created by Ed 2 months ago
Good morning, Mum did not really want a eulogy, as she was not one for self-promotion so I will not wax lyrical but I think it is fitting to briefly acknowledge the person that she was. Mum (also known as Ann) was born locally in 1950 and grew up in Gardenia Road and Summerhill Grove, before moving to Manorway. So not really the longest commute in terms of house moves! She studied at Enfield County School then went into Teaching, first training to be a primary school teacher, which she did for a number of years at Raglan, she later also ran the Sunday school in the hall over the way for many years (teaching children, including me and Lizzy, some of the principles that underpin the Christian faith). She later worked as a teaching assistant for primary age children with additional needs at Firs Farm. A role she found both challenging and rewarding. Throughout her life Ann was always a strong advocate for youngsters, cared deeply about their welfare and the importance of listening to them and giving them a chance to make the best they could in life. Indeed after she passed we discovered circa eight monthly direct debits set-up to various charities, but with a primary focus on children and homeless charities. In her personal life mum was a committed Christian who attended St Stephens and latterly also St Mark’s since she was a child. She met Dad in 1969 and they subsequently married here in April 1973. I was born in 1976, and Lizzy in 1987. An avid reader on a range of topics from British medieval history through Terry Pratchett, Murder mysteries and true crime. She did not serve in the military. She was useful in a quiz, I personally think she made a great steak and kidney pudding, loved her family unconditionally and valued her friends very highly. She was able to make a believable (for a five year old) dragon out of egg cartons and tell historical stories that had you gripped. She often took Lizzy up to various museums in London during the school holidays. She was a member of the Richard III society and an authority on the Plantagenet kings, And yes, I did say that Mum did not serve in the military! We discovered that she had a book for writing down useful numbers, bank details, life assurance policies and the like. However, she had effectively filled in nothing except the section on military service, which she had marked as “not applicable”….which only really confirmed what we knew, or thought we did! After retiring Mum continues her church work. She was delighted to see Lizzy get married and enjoyed spending time with Dad, at home or in short trips in the UK. I’m not going to dwell on medical issues or health struggles she had towards the latter stages, we are here to remember the happy and contented person she was and the positivity and care she freely gave to all. In latter years Mum found great solace and encouragement in reading the teachings of Julian of Norwich, and you will see a quote at the end of the order of service. Finally, Ann has moved on and is now at peace and we shall all miss her kindness, generosity and love. It will sometimes be hard to remember, but in the end all will be well.